No

…or rather “No thank you”.
One after another all the people going to and from the car park said “No”.
No, they did not want to enter a prize draw to win a Mini – or even £10,000 which is the alternative prize the company has just added.
I can usually rely on somebody to go for it – which is why I consistently get two entry forms filled in every day and thus comfortably fill my quota of people to talk to about my business.
But not yesterday. Yesterday they were in a hurry or their parking ticket was running out or they had ice cream in their shopping bag and it would melt… or to put it another way, if they didn’t want to enter my draw, one excuse was as good as another.
So today I changed tack. Instead of setting the target of two forms filled in, I set one of five “no’s” – the assumption being that before I reached it, I would pass my old target of people to talk to without even trying.
This is what happened:
“Hello, can you do me a favour?”
- Yes, what can I do?”
“Well every day I try and find 5 people who don’t want to win £10,000 or a new car – would you be one of those?”
The first four people looked at me as if I was mad. Then they made an excuse and scuttled off.
The fifth said: “What do you mean ‘people who don’t want to win £10,000.”
“Exactly that,” I told her. “I need people to enter this prize draw and I don’t like them saying ‘No’ so I ask for people who don’t want to enter and that way I get a result. It’s much more satisfying.”
She looked at me and weighed me up. Then she decided to be awkward: “All right then, I do want to enter your draw.”
Wearily I opened my folder and started writing down her name. Then she wanted to know what it was all about and I had to tell her that as well. Finally she wanted to know how I could save her 25% off her household bills to begin with and why that saving would increase as time goes by.
And as a final insult, she insisted I go round tomorrow to do an asessment.
She’ll probably want me to sign her up as well. Really! some people have no consideration…

There is a postscript to all this. As I was driving off, congratulating myself on my appointment, I suddenly realised that I had failed to get my five “no’s”. I was still on four – so I took the exit and ended up in the PC World car park. For some reason it was empty and then it transpired that there had been a power cut. The staff were all outside sending the customers away.
Fortunately for me the young man who explained this also said he was too busy to enter a draw so instead I gave him a card.
“What’s this?” he said.
“It’s about money,” I told him. “Are you interested in money?”
- I certainly am.
“Saving it or making it?”
- Well both…
And now he says he’s coming to our open evening….
Just think: If I’d been going for yes’s – or more precisely, one appointment a day, I would never have met him.

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What’s it all about?

This is the diary of a successful Multi-Level Marketer making money from home and fitting a part-time business into a busy life.
Over the years it has developed but the objective remains the same: To demonstrate how anyone can build a successful network marketing business in "the nooks and crannies of the day".
Eventually this spawned a training programme which I call The Cold Market Academy. This began as a seminar available only to MLM-ers working with my company. However this is now available as an e-book worldwide and priced at only $10 with a money-back guarantee! To order your copy click Here
But at the heart of the Network Marketing Blog is the answer to the two most common questions people ask when they look at this business - and the two biggest challenges they face when the start:
1. I m not a salesperson.
2. I don't have the time.
These are genuine concerns and all too often they get brushed aside: "Don't worry about that. We'll show you how..."
This blog is designed to show how it works in reality and in real time - how anyone, no matter how busy, can work their business consistently in small fragments of time. Because that's all you need; just a few seconds to find out if someone's interested.
And please bear in mind the entries here are only a tiny snapshot of the daily activity. Most of what goes on would make very dull reading indeed: Making calls from the list ... adding names to the list...making calls from the list...
As for being a salesperson: Have a look and decide for yourself.
Is it sales?
Let's say you call on a friend unexpectedly and find them up to their ankles in water and battling with a burst pipe.
Imagine it: There they are, soaked to the skin, trying to wrap a towel round the leak while they shout: "I rang the plumber but all I get is the answerphone..."
Honestly now, would you ignore their plight or would you volunteer the number of your own plumber.
Would you do what you could to help them or would you consider that going into "sales" on behalf of the plumber would be beneath you?
And what would your friend say when they realised you had deliberately chosen to leave them struggling to stem the flow and all because you felt embarrassed about "selling" something.
Network marketing is all about spreading good news and it's all about helping people.

If you're thinking of getting into Network Marketing - or already in it but not making enough money - contact me at info@johnpassmore.co.uk

About Me

John Passmore
Woodbridge, Suffolk,
United Kingdom

For 25 years I was a newspaper reporter - ending up as Chief Correspondent for the London Evening Standard. Then I gave it all up and, with my wife, set out to live the simple life on a small boat while writing a column for the Daily Telegraph. Five years and two children later we moved ashore - and five years and another two children after that I ran out of money. Nobody wanted to give me a job and I couldn't afford to start a conventional business. Then at a craft fair in our local community hall, somebody showed me network marketing. It was described as a home-based business that would provide a second income for anyone who wanted to work from home. I was sceptical. There were claims of high earnings and something called a "residual income". But what if it did work? And besides what alternative did I have? So I threw myself into it wholeheartedly (which is the only way to succeed at anything). I'm not saying it's easy or that there were never moments of doubt but if you're prepared to learn and determined never to give up, then there is a statistical certainty that you will make money. I started in April 2005. I was broke and embarrassed. Today I have no money worries whatsoever.

(In particular we have no worries since converting our garage into what we now grandly call "The Studio" - a luxurious apartment which we offer as bed and breakfast or a holiday let. See www.debenhouse.co.uk)